Ever seen someone and you just can’t remember their name?
It’s embarrassing.
And if you’re in a position where you’re in front of a lot of people very often, likely there will be people who know your name, but you don’t know theirs. Still embarrassing.
I’ve got some things that I’m working on to help me better remember names, but I want to save embarrassment for others who aren’t working on it if that’s at all possible. So here’s my number one rule when I introduce myself:
Assmume nobody remembers my name.
Always assume someone has no idea who you are. (If they happen to remember your name, you’ll be pleasantly surprised!)
Then give them the context for how they know you.
Where did you meet? How long ago? Why should they know you? What’s the connection?
Assume they don’t know your spouse either. It’ll put them at ease, because if they don’t remember exactly they’ll be wracking their brain. If they have no recollection of who you are, this *rule* will help them tremendously. Trust me.
As soon as you act like someone should know who you are, you come across as a diva. And nobody wants to be a diva or talk to one.
So give people the easy road. Remind them of your name. And you’ll save everyone a little embarrassment and disappointment.
Question:
Are you good at remembering names?
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