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Offended by the Gospel? Good!

We sang this song this past Sunday at Grace:

Jesus Paid it All

I hear the Savior say
Thy strength indeed is small
Child of weakness watch and pray
Find in me thine all in all

Jesus paid it all
All to him I owe
Sin had left a crimson stain
He washed it white as snow

Lord now indeed I find
Thy power and thine alone
Can change the lepers spots
And melt the heart of stone

The Gospel is offensive!  It says:

You are helpless ( Psalm 10:12, Daniel 10:8, Matthew 9:36)

You are hopeless (Proverbs 24:19-21, Ephesians 2:11-12)

You are dead (Ephesians 2:1, Romans 5:12)

You are needy (Psalm 79:7-9)

You are not perfect (Romans 3:8-10)

You are weak (Romans 5:6)

You are not God (Job 38-40:2)

The Good News is that we have been redeemed by a Savior who is none of these things.

 

Do You Have a Vision Problem?

Keep Out!I visited a church recently, and found it to be less than friendly.  In fact, we felt like we were outsiders.

They used lots of “insider” language, barely acknowledged that visitors were even present, and talked about situations that one would only know about if he or she were a regular attender.

The problem, as I saw it, wasn’t a lack of volunteers.  It wasn’t even a lack of skilled volunteers.  There were plenty of capable folks who could have made us feel warm and welcomed.

The problem wasn’t that the pastor and leaders couldn’t communicate in such a way that first-timers could get it.

The problem wasn’t a lack of organization on the part of the leadership and the “welcome” committee.

The problem is that they didn’t want to.

By not communicating the importance of welcoming outsiders, they had structured their service in such a way that those who are new felt awkward, unwelcomed, and ultimately unwanted.

People want to be led.  They’ll be led where the leader takes them.

If there’s a problem with vitally important tasks consistently not being carried out, maybe the finger needs to be pointed at you, the leader.

Are you regularly casting vision for those things that are most important? Where are you taking those you’re leading?

 

The Role of Parents

I serve at an unbelievably awesome church.  I won’t go into all of the reasons why I feel that way, but I’ll talk about one reason here.

We are a church that cares about families.  One way that we do that is by giving parents and children opportunities to talk about important matters of faith.  Children and parents typically go their separate ways on Sunday mornings, right?  Children to the children’s area, parents to the sanctuary…or Starbucks, if they really don’t like the preacher.  I’m not challenging this at all.  In fact, it’s probably best that parents have a separate area on Sunday mornings (the whole Starbucks thing, though…yeah, that’s probably not best).  However, this does not negate the fact that parents and children need to talk about God…together!

This may be revolutionary to you, but it is not the job of the local church to be the primary voice of truth and training for your children.  That’s the job of their parents!  Parents should not abdicate their role to the youth pastor or children’s pastor.

Deuteronomy 6:4-7 says, “Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one.  Love the LORD your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” (emphasis mine)

Talking to children “when you sit at home…walk along the road…lie down and get up” only makes sense in the context of a family…not the local church.  The local church’s role is to equip parents to do what God has called them to do, helping them to live out their faith with their children.

So, in order to not step on the toes of parents whose job it is to teach their children how to honor the Lord, in addition to giving parents tools each week on Sunday morning (to continue the conversation started in their child’s small group), we have a once/month event.  This event, called Cross Street Live (for children k-5th grade), is designed to communicate the truths of Scripture in a way that is fun and engaging for children.  The catch is that the parents are required to attend as well, thus exposing them to the truth and giving them topics to talk about with their children.

Sound like something you’d be interested in?  Great!  It’s open to the public, and it starts this Sunday, September 20th!  All of the information is listed on the Cross Street Live website.

Will you be there?

 

Claims do NOT = Reality

I recently attended a Major League Baseball game in Atlanta, GA, where the Braves took on the Cincinnati Reds.  I had a great time!  I just love going to the ballpark, and all the sights, smells, and tastes (I have to get peanuts when I go) of the whole experience.  But something struck me as odd.

Baseball still claims to be America’s #1 pastime.


There were 2 other major events going on in Atlanta that weekend.  Here are the stats from those:

Alabama vs Virginia Tech at the Georgia Dome:  74,954  in attendance. It was the fourth-largest crowd to witness a game at the Georgia Dome.  It was sold out 9 weeks in advance (the average ticket price was an astounding $256! (as tracked by www.stubhub.com)).

Georgia Tech vs Jacksonville State: 46, 131 in attendance, and the stadium is just across town.

NASCAR Atlanta Motor Speedway Sprint Cup Series: 111,300 in attendance at the, on Sunday, the day following the Braves game.

Atlanta Braves game I attended: 29, 078 (58% full).  For the record, they even showed fireworks afterwards!

Here’s my point: Major League Baseball is not the #1 pastime in America.  Heck, they’re not even the #1 pastime in Atlanta!  They can make that claim all they want, but it doesn’t change reality.

The same is true for any claims that we make in our churches.

  • We can claim all day long that we love our communities.  But the proof is in the pudding.
  • “We are a church that reaches out to visitors and makes them feel welcomed.”  Just because you claim that doesn’t mean you actually ARE a church that does so.
  • You can say that you, as a church, are developing authentic community.  That’s a lofty claim.  Are you, really?
  • “We are a church that ministers the Gospel.”  Hopefully…but not because you say that.
  • “We develop followers of Jesus Christ.”  I pray that every church does…but just because you read that on a church’s website, don’t assume it’s correct.

Why not spend a few minutes and assess the validity of the claims of your church, or your small group, or your ministry, or your organization.  Are you truly accomplishing what you are claiming?  Or are your claims bigger than your results?

Don’t be the MLB.  Don’t lie to me.  Either work to raise your output results…or lower your claims.

 

Fearless, by Max Lucado

FearlessFear is one of those things that, at some level, we all face.  Fear of spiders, of being mugged in a dark alley, of being diagnosed with a terminal illness, of losing our children, of failing, or of leaving the curling iron on and burning the house down.  At the end of the day, our fears show a lack of trust in a loving, caring, all-powerful God.  In fact, “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.” (1 John 4:18)  But becoming “fearless” isn’t quite that easy, is it?  It should be, but it isn’t.  Try telling someone who is going out on stage, but is deathly afraid of public speaking, “Just love God more…it’ll be ok!” and likely, right in the heat of the moment, that won’t help.

Trite answers rarely do.  Truth is truth, yes, but it must be packaged in a way that addresses body and soul, ministering to the person based on their past, present, and future.  Merely telling somebody what they have to believe, and not helping them to apply it to their lives, is typically not helpful, and often does more damage than good.

Though I found much of Lucado’s book filled with truth, it often smacked of the trite, quick-fix answers that Christians are often criticized of offering.  I’m not questioning Lucado’s heart, but just being honest with the fact that much of the book I found to be, well…quick-fixy (yes, I just made up a word).  The book is full of truth, with Lucado mixing lots of Scripture references, and even doing a bit of exegetical work (he is a pastor, after all!), but the way in which it was communicated does not resonate with me like other books on fear do.  In fact, I would strongly recommend Running Scared, by Ed Welch, as a stronger alternative to Lucado’s Fearless.

I don’t believe it will lead people astray.  In fact, I enjoyed his chapter “I’m Sinking Fast,” in which he talks about the importance of looking to Christ in the midst of the storm, and realizing that He has intentionally not removed the storm from our lives because He intends to work some good in us through it.  However, this book falls short of my expectations.

I hate to give a sour review, but this book was not my favorite, and won’t go on my shelf of recommended reads.

 

My son, dog food, and satisfaction

dog_food1I had stepped out of the room and left my son to himself for just a second.  Typically, I hear him all of the time.  Sometimes he’s banging a toy on the table…or hitting his head on it…or crying…or crawling.  This time, when I stepped out, I listened for him, but couldn’t hear him.  As you can probably guess, 9 times out of 10, that means he’s up to no good.  This time was no exception.  Here’s what I said about it on Twitter:

Caught my 10 month old son snacking on dog food. Probably tastes better than his pureed snap peas.

I am positive that his pureed peas, though they look and smell pretty gross, are vastly more tasty than dog food.  Dog food was created for, well, dogs.  Pureed peas, while not created for me (thank you very much, I’ll stick with non-pureed veggies), were created for humans to enjoy…or at least for humans to consume and receive energy from.

I can’t imagine that Rex was truly satisfied with the dog food.  Though he cried when I took it out of his mouth, but at some level he was saying, “Thank you for taking that nasty stuff out of my mouth!”  I didn’t discipline him…he didn’t know better, the food was accessible, and it was something new.  I simply removed it from his mouth, and carried him away from the food bowl.  Like I said, he did cry, but it was only for a moment.

I wonder how many of us need some junk removed from our lives.  How many of us need God to come in and remove that thing that is ultimately unsatisfying?  That will ultimately leave a bad taste in our mouth and our stomachs unnourished…that “seemed like a good idea at the time.”  It won’t be fun in the moment, but looking at the bigger picture, getting rid of the nasty dog food is what’s best for you.  Go ahead and spit it out.  Turn from it.  Run away from it.  That’s what repentance is.

God’s ready and willing to forgive.  Even for our dumbest mistakes.  Why not give Him a shot?

 

Attention all Dads!

Check out this video. (sorry, I’m having trouble embedding videos onto my blog, so I had to provide a link)

My son is only 10 months old, but I can already see that he loves it when I show him that I’m proud of what he’s done.  He beams with pride when I am excited about his accomplishments.

Children need their parents’ support.  They need us to be proud of their achievements.  They need us to get down in the dirt and play.  Be made to look silly sometimes.  Sacrifice time, resources, energy, and our free time…to attend one of their games…one of their dance competitions…to play in the back yard…to teach them how to ride a bike…how to drive a car.  In short, they need us to love them.

Isn’t that what God did?

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God something to be grasped,
but made himself nothing,
taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
and became obedient to death—
even death on a cross!
Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
and gave him the name that is above every name,
that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,
to the glory of God the Father.  –Philippians 2:3-11

 

Bad Chicken

On Monday morning, I had some leftover chicken that I brought to work with me.  My arms were full when I got out of the truck to walk into the office, and I inadvertently forgot the chicken.  3 hours later, I realized my mistake, walked out to the truck to get it, and came back inside to put it in our refrigerator.  I ended up having lunch plans on Monday, so I left it in the fridge until yesterday.

I was really hungry, and the thought of grilled chicken made my mouth water.  30 minutes after I had finished it, my mouth was far from watering.  My stomach was messed up!  In the 3 short hours the chicken hung out in my hot truck, it had spoiled.  It tasted good going down, but soon had its revenge.

In your church, or business, or organization, are you set up to move swiftly on ideas that fit within your mission and vision? Or are you set up in such a hierarchical pyramid that, even if an idea is brilliant, it takes months, or even years, to move forward with it? Or maybe you’re so locked into a certain way of fulfilling the strategy of your company that you can’t see the value of a new idea.  Good ideas can go bad quickly when they’re not acted upon.

At one point, that chicken would have been a great choice for lunch.  But left in the truck, it spoiled.

 

Sunday Morning

I’m blessed to serve at Grace Community Church.  Seriously, I’m blessed like crazy.  They took a chance on a young guy like me, even before I was done with seminary.  Hopefully, it’s not one they are regretting now!  I’m given freedom to try new things and experiment with different ideas in ministry, all with the hope that more of Clarksville might fall in love with Jesus.  I’m also given direction and shepherding as a young leader, which I desperately want and need.  Seminary was great, don’t get me wrong…but it didn’t prepare me for all that I would encounter in ministry.  The team that I serve with here is so supportive, and I love serving with them.

If you’re not a part of Grace, let me introduce you to Chad Rowland (aka @chadrowland, if you’re on twitter).  The guy’s a phenom.  I’m wowed every time he preaches.  He’s a masterful storyteller (before you brand me as a heretic for praising him as a storyteller and not as a “preacher” or “pastor,” don’t forget that Scripture is the story of God’s redeeming his people…that’s right, isn’t it?), having me on the edge of my seat one minute as he shares a story, laughing the next, and floored by the Truth the very next.  Yesterday was no exception.  He was able to cast the vision for who we are as a church, our three-fold strategy for making growing followers of Christ, and talk about money, the easiest, most comfortable topic to address ever…it was a ton to cover in a short amount of time, but as always, Chad did it with much precision and wisdom.  God’s using him in amazing ways at Grace.

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more about “TruthCasting“, posted with vodpod
 

The Language of Twitter

New to Twitter, and wondering what all of this different terminology means?  Been using it a while and still unsure?  Haven’t even bought in to Twitter yet, but wondering why people’s Facebook updates have crazy letters and symbols attached to them?  I get asked a lot of questions about Twitter, so here’s a crash course that may help you out.

Ever seen something like this on a person’s Facebook update?

Picture 2What’s the deal with the RT?  Why start somebody’s name with the @ symbol?

There’s a whole language that’s developing with Twitter that, if you don’t know it, will leave you behind.  Some of the language is built into the software, and some is developing organically, but all of it is foreign to you if you haven’t used it before.

A Guide to the Language of Twitter

1. Tweet – a tweet is your status update.  Every time you post something to your twitter account, it’s considered a “tweet.”  Sounds cheesy, I know.  Their language, not mine.  The goal is to answer the question, “What are you doing right now?”

2. Follow – if you want to receive people’s “tweets” when they update, you “follow” them.  Sounds kind of creepy, but really it’s not.  You have the option, when you follow them, of receiving their updates either via your mobile phone (Twitter utilizes SMS) or solely on your computer.  If you choose to receive them on your mobile phone, then every time they “tweet,” you will receive a text message.

3. @reply – When you sign up for Twitter, you create a username.  Mine happens to be @benreed.  Your username is, of course, attached to your account, and anybody who knows your username can find your Twitter account.  It’s as simple as going to http://www.twitter.com/________.  The @ reply comes in when I want to mention somebody in my update.  If I say something like this…

Picture 4…then you know exactly who I was talking about.  In fact, when I “mention” somebody by starting their username with @, their name shows up as a hyperlink that others can click on, seeing who really messed up some mac & cheese (see @steph_underwood’s update above)!

4. RT – This is shorthand for “ReTweet.”  A “tweet” is an update that you post, either via your mobile phone (Twitter utilizes SMS) or your computer.  If you read somebody’s update, and like it, and want to share it with those who follow you on Twitter, thus creating a “viral” message, you can “ReTweet” it.  Think of it as a mass FWD that you want to share with others…except this one is much shorter than those you receive in your email inbox.  Here’s what I mean:

Picture 5So, as you can see, I “ReTweeted” the post of Cary Branscum.  You can quickly know it’s the famed Cary Branscum, from http://caryperks.wordpress.com, by clikcing on the hyperlink created when I started his username with @.  Still follow?

5. # (hashtags) – Though some people espouse that Twitter is a mass of one-way conversations with nobody, I don’t find that to be true.  Hashtags are a great example of how Twitter opens up dialog and creates networking conversations.  Here’s what I’m talking about:

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Hashtags help you to categorize ideas and topics.  So, although reading lots of different church signs may not be the highlight of your day, when I preceded the word “churchsign” with a “#,” it unites me with everybody else who is posting about church signs, making it a searchable topic.

6. DM – this is shorthand for “direct message.”  This is a message sent privately to only one person, in contrast to an @ reply (also known as a “mention”), which is broadcast as public information.  To send a direct message to a person, simply start your update with the letter ‘d,’ followed by the person’s username.  The message is then sent to that person and only that person.

The language of Twitter will continue to develop and grow.  This is a list of the basics as they stand right now.  Are there any I left out?

 
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