Archive for September, 2009

I took my wife on a date last night.  We went to 3rd and Lindsley, a bar & grill in downtown Nashville, to eat and listen to music.  We both enjoy music from the singer-songwriter genre, and though neither of us were too familiar with the lineup of musicians, we enjoyed the night. (as a [...]

28 Sep, 2009

Leading without authority

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Leadership| Small Group Strategy

One of my pet peeves in leadership is when I’m given a leadership responsibility, but not given any authority to make decisions.  Have you ever run into this? You’re delegated a task, but not been trusted enough to answer questions, set any sort of direction for the project, or answer questions about the current or [...]

Technology and social media continues to change, whether you like it or not.  Are you adapting, too, or are you being left behind?
Some of these facts will shock you.

22 Sep, 2009

Offended by the Gospel? Good!

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Devotional Thought

We sang this song this past Sunday at Grace:
Jesus Paid it All
I hear the Savior say
Thy strength indeed is small
Child of weakness watch and pray
Find in me thine all in all
Jesus paid it all
All to him I owe
Sin had left a crimson stain
He washed it white as snow
Lord now indeed I find
Thy power and thine [...]

18 Sep, 2009

Do You Have a Vision Problem?

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Church| Leadership

I visited a church recently, and found it to be less than friendly.  In fact, we felt like we were outsiders.
They used lots of “insider” language, barely acknowledged that visitors were even present, and talked about situations that one would only know about if he or she were a regular attender.
The problem, as I saw [...]

16 Sep, 2009

The Role of Parents

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Church| Parenting

I serve at an unbelievably awesome church.  I won’t go into all of the reasons why I feel that way, but I’ll talk about one reason here.
We are a church that cares about families.  One way that we do that is by giving parents and children opportunities to talk about important matters of faith.  Children [...]

09 Sep, 2009

Claims do NOT = Reality

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Leadership

I recently attended a Major League Baseball game in Atlanta, GA, where the Braves took on the Cincinnati Reds.  I had a great time!  I just love going to the ballpark, and all the sights, smells, and tastes (I have to get peanuts when I go) of the whole experience.  But something struck me as [...]

08 Sep, 2009

Fearless, by Max Lucado

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Book Review

Fear is one of those things that, at some level, we all face.  Fear of spiders, of being mugged in a dark alley, of being diagnosed with a terminal illness, of losing our children, of failing, or of leaving the curling iron on and burning the house down.  At the end of the day, our [...]

02 Sep, 2009

My son, dog food, and satisfaction

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Devotional Thought

I had stepped out of the room and left my son to himself for just a second.  Typically, I hear him all of the time.  Sometimes he’s banging a toy on the table…or hitting his head on it…or crying…or crawling.  This time, when I stepped out, I listened for him, but couldn’t hear him.  As [...]




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Vintage Jesus: Timeless Answers to Timely QuestionsSimple Small Groups: A User-Friendly Guide for Small Group LeadersUnder the Overpass: A Journey of Faith on the Streets of AmericaYour Jesus Is Too Safe: Outgrowing a Drive-Thru, Feel Good SaviorSeeker Small Groups: Engaging Spiritual Seekers in Life-Changing DiscussionsCrazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God

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