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		<title>How NOT to lead a small group</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 13:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben Reed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Listening is an important aspect of leading a small group.  I even mentioned it in a recent post HERE.  Actively listening, asking appropriate follow-up questions, noticing body language, and helping people understand the heart of the issue being discussed are all part of facilitating discussion in a small group environment. If you desire to be [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2009/08/03/how-not-to-lead-a-small-group/">How NOT to lead a small group</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listening is an important aspect of leading a small group.  I even mentioned it in a recent post <a href="http://lifeandtheology.wordpress.com/2009/07/31/small-group-leaders-listen-up/">HERE</a>.  Actively listening, asking appropriate follow-up questions, noticing body language, and helping people understand the heart of the issue being discussed are all part of facilitating discussion in a small group environment.</p>
<p>If you desire to be a good small group leader, you <em><strong>must</strong></em> work on your listening skills.</p>
<p>Obviously, listening isn&#8217;t the only thing that a small group leader needs to be able to do, but I believe that it is a vital skill that group leaders must learn.  Check out this video.  It&#8217;s a great example of somebody who does <em><strong>not</strong></em> really listen, does <em><strong>not</strong></em> ask appropriate questions, <em><strong>offends</strong></em> with statements and questions, and quickly <em><strong>judges</strong></em> based on partial information.  Enjoy!</p>
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