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		<title>Wal Mart, customer service, and your church</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; When I think of customer service, I don&#8217;t instantly think of Wal Mart. In fact, when I think of Wal Mart, I think of two things: Crazy cheap stuff Crazy people (HT People of Wal Mart) Typically, customer service hasn&#8217;t jumped out of the aisles to scare me at Wal Mart. Until recently. I [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/09/wal-mart-customer-service-and-your-church/">Wal Mart, customer service, and your church</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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<p><strong>When I think of customer service, I don&#8217;t instantly think of Wal Mart.</strong></p>
<p>In fact, when I think of Wal Mart, I think of two things:</p>
<ul>
<li>Crazy cheap stuff</li>
<li>Crazy people (HT <a href="http://www.peopleofwalmart.com/">People of Wal Mart</a>)</li>
</ul>
<p>Typically, customer service hasn&#8217;t jumped out of the aisles to scare me at Wal Mart. Until recently.</p>
<p>I was looking for aluminum baking pans. I went up and down the grocery aisles. Looked at every end cap. Even walked through the milk area twice thinking maybe I&#8217;d missed them.</p>
<h2>Asking for help</h2>
<p>Then I broke a cardinal man-code. I asked for help from a Wal Mart associate. Thinking the pans were somewhere in the grocery section, I asked someone who was working in that section, stocking shelves.</p>
<p>I instantly felt guilty for asking them. They were in the middle of something else, deeply engrossed in unpacking and stocking cans of something. I knew I was a distraction from him accomplishing his job.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry to bother you…really, I know you&#8217;re working on something else. But could you point me in the direction of the aluminum baking pans? I can&#8217;t find them anywhere. Just point me in the general direction and I&#8217;ll get out of your hair.&#8221;</p>
<p>I must have had a wince on my face, anticipating a pair of rolling eyes, sharp tone, and general disdain.</p>
<p>But I got none of those. In fact, I got exactly the opposite.</p>
<p>&#8220;No bother at all.&#8221; she said.  &#8221;I am 99% sure I know where they are. Let&#8217;s go find them together.&#8221;</p>
<p>So the employee walked me across the store, <em><strong>away from</strong></em> the grocery section (I&#8217;m dumb&#8230;I know), to the home goods aisles, and <em><strong>right to</strong></em> the aluminum baking pans.</p>
<p>&#8220;Wow. Thank you so much!&#8221; I said.</p>
<p>&#8220;No problem at all. Glad to help.&#8221; she returned.</p>
<p>I was floored. And felt valued. And I found what I was looking for.</p>
<p>And in the process, my feelings about Wal Mart, which weren&#8217;t necessarily negative in the first place, took a drastic turn upwards. Suddenly, this store became a store that valued me, a customer. I may have gone in for the discounts…but I&#8217;ll return because of the stellar, friendly, customer-focused customer service.</p>
<h2>Customer service and your theology</h2>
<p>I began to wonder if we treat people like this on Sunday mornings in our local churches. Especially staff members.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s easy to feel like we have more &#8220;important things&#8221; than helping someone find a different classroom. Or find the welcome desk. Or get information about another ministry. <strong>Our role is much &#8220;bigger&#8221; and more &#8220;important&#8221; than that</strong>&#8230;we preach, we lead children&#8217;s ministries, and we equip volunteers. We set up hallways, hang banners, and operate the computers. <strong>We don&#8217;t have time for little things like, &#8220;<em>Do you know where the baby dedication happens today?</em>&#8220;</strong></p>
<p>We quickly forget that, though our roles are important, it&#8217;s the <em><strong>people that we&#8217;re called to serve</strong></em> that are vital. Creating lasting, memorable experiences is unbelievably important in our churches. The experience someone has on a Sunday morning doesn&#8217;t trump the Gospel&#8230;<em><strong>it fleshes the Gospel out.</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>You</strong></em> can help someone have a better, more beautiful picture of Church by the way you serve them, instead of just handing them off or pointing them in another direction. <strong>The way you carefully and skillfully and patiently lead guests has lasting impacts on the health of your local church.</strong></p>
<h3>The way we treat others reveals our theology.</h3>
<p>We serve a God who is infinitely patient and gracious with us. To love others any less is cheapening grace.</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;The Lord, the Lord God, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, and abounding in lovingkindness and truth.&#8221; &#8211; Exodus 34:6</p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Questions:</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>When guests leave your church, do they feel valued?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>When someone needs help, do they feel like they&#8217;re a burden on you if they ask?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Have you ever gotten so engrossed in your specific ministry that you were bothered when asked for a little help?</strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Is your church more &#8220;product&#8221; focused than &#8220;people&#8221; focused?</strong></span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/09/wal-mart-customer-service-and-your-church/">Wal Mart, customer service, and your church</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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		<title>Funding a Church Plant</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Feb 2012 10:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A friend of mine has come up with a great idea for helping supplement his income for a new church plant. And the good news for you is that the plan could include you, benefiting you and your local church. The old model of raising support from a distance for a church plant is to [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/08/funding-a-church-plant/">Funding a Church Plant</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Bobby-downtown-1-BM.jpeg"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4295" title="Bobby-downtown-1-BM" src="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/Bobby-downtown-1-BM.jpeg" alt="" width="300" height="255" /></a>A friend of mine has come up with a great idea for helping supplement his income for a new church plant.</p>
<p>And the good news for you is that the plan could include you, benefiting you and your local church.</p>
<p>The old model of raising support from a distance for a church plant is to ask people, or other churches and organizations, to pledge to give $__ for __ months. This is a call to people who aren&#8217;t on the ground level with the church plant, and may never get to see what God&#8217;s doing except through occasional newsletters. The only real benefit they receive is in knowing that their money is going to support what God&#8217;s doing through another local church.</p>
<p>Bobby&#8217;s idea is to have a mutually beneficial giving channel. You can read more about it on Bobby&#8217;s site, but basically he&#8217;s looking for 80 churches to give $40-$100/month. In return, they&#8217;ll get</p>
<ul>
<li>One 30-minute monthly webinar on a variety of topics like: small groups, assimilation, first impressions, website presence, marketing, social media, big events, young adults, outreach, discipleship, etc. led by Bobby.</li>
<li>TWO “live” 40-minute tele-seminars with a special guest expert each month for you and up to 4 of your team members (5 people total!) on topics like Small Groups, Discipleship, Young Adults, Leadership, Multi-site, Church Planting, Church Revitalization, Diversity, Multi-ethnic Church, Worship, Vision, Technology, Social Media, Marketing, Urban Ministry, Team Building &amp; Building Teams, Transition, Burnout, Online Church, Strategy…and more.</li>
</ul>
<p>The lineup of coaching that Bobby&#8217;s got is pretty stellar. Here&#8217;s who&#8217;s slated:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#gregaktinson">Greg Atkinson</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#johnatkinson">John Atkinson </a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#ericbryant">Eric Bryant </a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#jennicatron">Jenni Catron</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#djchuang">DJ Chuang</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#brandoncox">Brandon Cox</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#alandanielson">Alan Danielson</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#markdeymaz">Mark DeYmaz</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#margaretfeinberg">Margaret Feinberg</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#chrisforbes">Chris Forbes</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#rowlandforman">Rowland Forman</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#davidfrancis">David Francis</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#rickhowerton">Rick Howerton</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#gregkappas">Dr. Greg Kappas</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#shaunking">Shaun King</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#tommykyllonen">Tommy “Urban D” Kyllonen</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#maclake">Mac Lake</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#robertlewis">Dr. Robert Lewis</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#willmancini">Will Mancini</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#jonathanmerritt">Jonathan Merritt</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#bobby">Bobby Minor</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#billoechsler">Bill Oechsler</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#larryosborne">Dr. Larry Osborne</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#benreed">Ben Reed</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#timross">Tim Ross</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#zakwhite">Zak White</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#scottwilliams">Scott Williams</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#ericwillis">Eric Willis</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#lancewitt">Lance Witt</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/guest-speakers/#georgeyancey">Dr. George Yancey</a></li>
</ul>
<div>I&#8217;m still not sure how my name slipped in among those guys, but I&#8217;m honored to help Bobby out. He&#8217;ll be planting Mosaic Church in Durham, NC, a new campus of <a href="http://www.mosaicchurch.net">Mosaic Little Rock</a>.</div>
<p>This is really a great model, where you (and your church) can financially invest in a church plant, and receive some top-notch coaching along the way in return.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>If you&#8217;d like to support Bobby, and be a part of the coaching network, click <a href="http://www.bobbyminor.com/coachingnetwork/how/"><span style="color: #ff0000;">HERE</span></a> to start the process.</strong></span></p>
<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/08/funding-a-church-plant/">Funding a Church Plant</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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		<title>Residency in Ministry</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 10:04:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a great danger in attending seminary. In fact, seminary has robbed many people of a great ministry. There, I said it. I feel much better. The danger I&#8217;m referring to is an intellectualism that can drive students to value truth over people. That finds more value in being theologically &#8220;right&#8221; than in loving people. [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/02/residency-in-ministry/">Residency in Ministry</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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<p><strong>There&#8217;s a great danger in attending seminary. In fact, seminary has robbed many people of a great ministry.</strong></p>
<p>There, I said it. I feel much better.</p>
<p>The danger I&#8217;m referring to is an intellectualism that can drive students to value truth over people. That finds more value in being theologically &#8220;right&#8221; than in loving people. Seminary can leave students with an unbalanced view of ministry and theology and life.</p>
<p>Life, as the seminary student will find out, does not operate like a seminary classroom. The once black-and-white difficult doctrines either fall on deaf ears in most congregations…or appear somehow like a shade of gray not hinted at previously.</p>
<h3>In the classroom &amp; outside</h3>
<p>That said, I see the benefits of seminary for ministry. I was able, during my last 4 semesters of seminary, to work in a local church, fleshing out the information I was being fed in the classroom. And for me, that intimate connection with a local church helped me turn the corner. It helped me value knowledge, but never walk away from people in the process. It helped me work through living, breathing shades of doctrinal gray.</p>
<p>At Grace, we&#8217;ve been looking for a way to raise up and develop future leaders. We&#8217;ve had short-term interns, but those tend to be centered around doing tasks than actual development for ministry. We wanted something that was more robust, that gave people real hands-on ministry experience, and that also connected the dots theologically as young leaders were cutting their teeth. Even in areas of ministry like small groups.</p>
<p>I think we&#8217;ve found a way to accomplish this.</p>
<h3>Residency in Ministry Program</h3>
<p>We&#8217;re calling it, for now, our <a href="http://www.gcomchurch.com/residency-in-ministry">Residency in Ministry program</a>. Similar to a medical residency, we view this as a post-college &#8220;residency&#8221; where those in the program will be doing <em><strong>real</strong></em> ministry alongside pastors who are a little further down the road. They&#8217;ll be entrusted not with making copies (though, as we all know, that is a small slice of ministry, too) but with life-changing ministry. They&#8217;ll be viewed as full-on staff members, held to the expectations of the rest of our staff team. They&#8217;ll also receive a small stipend and have their housing covered.</p>
<p>In addition to doing the work of ministry, one major benefit of the program is that seminary tuition will be included. Clarksville is ~45 minutes from the new <a href="http://www.sbts.edu/extension/centers/nashville-tn/">Nashville campus of Southern Seminary</a>. We&#8217;ve already had staff members (myself included) who have worked full-time at Grace and attended classes concurrently. And as I said above, I believe that this is a great way to learn and do ministry: in the classroom and in the &#8220;lab.&#8221;</p>
<p>We&#8217;re receiving applications now, looking to have residents in place by August, 2012.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re interested, just head right <a href="http://www.gcomchurch.com/Websites/gracecc/images/documents/residency-in-ministry-application.doc">HERE</a> and start the application process. If you know someone who would fit the bill, send this info along. If you have any questions, we&#8217;ve tried to answer the most frequently asked <a href="http://www.gcomchurch.com/residency-in-ministry">HERE</a>.</p>
<p><strong>We&#8217;re stoked about this program, and are convinced it will be a great benefit to a great number of young leaders.</strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>If you were at the right stage in life, would this program entice you?</strong></span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/02/residency-in-ministry/">Residency in Ministry</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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		<title>Evangelism simplified</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 17:08:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you’re anything like me, witnessing comes super-easily. It seems I can winsomely turn every conversation I have back to the foundations of the gospel, have people laughing, nodding their head in agreement, crying, and saying, “Amen!” within just a few minutes. I quote a verse, and people cry out, “Please, more truth, Ben!” I [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/02/01/evangelism-simplified/">Evangelism simplified</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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<p>If you’re anything like me, witnessing comes super-easily. It seems I can winsomely turn every conversation I have back to the foundations of the gospel, have people laughing, nodding their head in agreement, crying, and saying, “Amen!” within just a few minutes. I quote a verse, and people cry out, “Please, more truth, Ben!” I sing a hymn while walking down the sidewalk, and people <em><strong>never</strong></em> look at me like I’m a freak &#8230; nay, they begin <em><strong>singing along</strong></em>, raising their hands in worship. I just have to encourage them not to close their eyes while they’re walking!</p>
<p>I carry tracts in my pocket, because every time I meet an unbeliever and give them one, they ask me if I’ll baptize them on the spot. I say, “It seems you need to hear about Jesus &#8230;” and they immediately respond, saying, “Yes, I’ve been waiting all my life! Please tell me more&#8230;” I <em><strong>always</strong></em> have the perfect word to say, the perfect prayer to pray, the perfect timing, and the perfect closing.</p>
<p>Don’t you?</p>
<p>No?!? Yeah, me neither. To me, witnessing is tough. It often feels stilted, forced, and unnatural. I never seem to have the right timing. And trying to perfectly remember each point about the gospel, combined with the fact that I’m nervous — that I feel like the other person hates me for bringing it up, that I feel woefully inadequate to share, that I feel like I have no idea what I’m talking about, that I just know that the other person has to be somewhere else and do something else — <strong>makes sharing my faith one of the most difficult activities I ever do.</strong></p>
<p>I think we make it <em><strong>too</strong></em> difficult, though. I know I do.</p>
<p>When it comes to sharing the gospel, let me offer you three steps to think through.</p>
<h2>3 Steps to Sharing the Gospel</h2>
<h3>Follow</h3>
<p><em><strong>Follow Christ.</strong></em> That’s what He calls each of you to do, right? You, living the life God has called you to live and being the person God has uniquely gifted you to be — that’s a great testimony to God. Each of us is a walking billboard for the goodness of God and a testimony that God can redeem, right, and set straight a person’s life. You don’t have to be perfect. Nobody expects you to be flawless. (Gasp!) And if you try to portray that to people, you’ll come across as arrogant and fake. You don’t have to have a perfect testimony, but you do have to follow a perfect Savior. That’s essential.</p>
<h3>Share</h3>
<p><em><strong>Share your story.</strong></em> Your story is compelling. Riveting. Life-changing (assuming you actually have been changed). And sharing your faith involves sharing your story. Be honest, transparent, and vulnerable. People will connect with your brokenness more quickly and fully than they ever will your “awesomeness.” Share the junk God’s redeeming you from, the junk you’re done with, the bigger picture He’s inviting you into, and the ways His grace is sufficient and His love is captivating.</p>
<h3>Invite</h3>
<p><em><strong>Invite other people into your story.</strong></em> Build relationships with people. And not just so that you can “get them saved.” Genuinely love people. Invest in them. Be their</p>
<p>￼friend. Listen to their story. Value them as God’s crowning creation. Look for ways to serve them, expecting nothing in return and with no strings attached. In so doing, you’re inviting them into the story that God’s writing through you. I’m convinced that people want to plug into something that’s bigger than themselves. Inviting people into your story, showing how your story fits into the broader story of God’s redemption of His people, does just that.</p>
<p>“THAT’S ALL?”</p>
<p>That’s it. Sharing your faith is much less complicated than we (church leaders) often make it. But it’s also much more difficult. Much more engaging. Much more demanding of your time and effort. Much more challenging of your life.</p>
<p>The goal of evangelism isn’t for the person to walk away with the “right” doctrine. Though doctrine is important, it’s not an end in itself.</p>
<p>Right doctrine should</p>
<ul>
<li>drive us to love others more, not less.</li>
<li>move us toward people, not away from them.</li>
<li>move us to condemn less, and love more. It should propel us toward kindness and patience, breaking our hearts for those far from Christ.</li>
<li>drive us to serve others, looking for nothing in return.</li>
</ul>
<p>“All day long I have held out my hands to a disobedient and contrary people” (Romans 10:21, ESV). All. Day. Long. God’s hands are full of hope, love, mercy, grace, forgiveness, and blessing. He sent His Son to earth to have a relationship with us. Let’s not reduce the beauty and power of that to mere words. To do so rips the truth of its love, grace, and mercy.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Follow Christ. Share your story. Invite people in. It’s that simple.</strong></span></p>
<p>￼￼Without love, truth is &#8230;</p>
<p><em>Obnoxious.</em></p>
<p><em>￼Offensive.</em></p>
<p><em>￼￼Impersonal.</em></p>
<p><em>Insignificant.</em></p>
<p><em>Empty</em></p>
<p><em><strong>￼￼￼Relationships matter.</strong></em></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Question: </strong></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Have you ever given someone a tract, and seen the heavens instantly open up?</strong></span></p>
<p><em>* I originally had this article published in the Fall 2011 edition of Collegiate Magazine (with a couple of minor tweaks here to fit it in as a blog post. To read more, pick up the magazine <a href="http://www.lifeway.com/collegiate">HERE</a>. </em></p>
<p><em>** Image credit: CreationSwap user <a href="http://www.creationswap.com/douglasshelton">Douglas Shelton</a></em></p>
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		<title>Playing a Jedi mind trick on yourself</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m reading through the whole Bible this year, on the chronological plan via YouVersion. I might have started a little later than you did, but this plan is a great way to read through the entirety of Scripture. But can I be honest with you? Sometimes when I read, my eyes gloss over, I finish [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/23/playing-a-jedi-mind-trick-on-yourself/">Playing a Jedi mind trick on yourself</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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<p>I&#8217;m reading through the whole Bible this year, on the <a href="http://www.youversion.com/reading-plans/chronological/">chronological plan via YouVersion</a>. I might have started <a title="Fresh starts don’t have to be trendy" href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/17/fresh-starts-dont-have-to-be-trendy/">a little later than you did</a>, but this plan is a great way to read through the entirety of Scripture.</p>
<p><em><strong>But can I be honest with you?</strong></em></p>
<p>Sometimes when I read, my eyes gloss over, I finish reading, and I have no idea what I&#8217;ve read.</p>
<p>I know, I know…not very holy, right? Not what you&#8217;d expect of a pastor. A pastor should 100% internalize <em><strong>every passage</strong></em>…nay, <em><strong>every word</strong></em>. Pastors should read a passage, and instantly be able to explain it using alliteration starting with the letter K. A pastor should read a passage and pretty much have it memorized, able to recall it at just the right time in just the right situation.</p>
<p><strong>I guess I&#8217;m not a normal pastor.</strong></p>
<p>Just trying to be honest.</p>
<p>This problem often happens when I read a familiar passage. It feels like I&#8217;m not really reading it, my eyes scanning the page like I&#8217;d scan a newspaper article I&#8217;ve been forced to read. A couple of key words jump out, but the passage feels very little like God&#8217;s authoritative, life-giving Word. My scanning eyes wander across the page, but my <em><strong>mind</strong></em> will wanders to other, less important tasks.</p>
<h3>The Jedi Mind Trick</h3>
<p>So I have decided to trick my mind by introducing the unfamiliar. Instead of reading one of the Bible translations I have read for years (English Standard Version, New Living Translation, New International Version), I&#8217;ve started reading the Holman Christian Standard Bible for my daily reading. It&#8217;s different enough that I can&#8217;t just scan a passage and instantly know what it&#8217;s going to say, my scanning habits having to slow down because my mind doesn&#8217;t recognize the cadence of the familiar.</p>
<p>Will this work?</p>
<p>Maybe. It&#8217;s working so far.</p>
<p>As I read through the book of Genesis, a book I&#8217;ve read countless times, it feels fresh again, alive with a renewed sense of beauty. It&#8217;s refreshing, my heart and mind approaching each passage as if I&#8217;m reading it for the first time. It&#8217;s what I needed to do.</p>
<p>Maybe it&#8217;s time for you to consider switching translations for your daily reading. Maybe it&#8217;s time to trick your mind into doing what you want it to do. Thinking what you want it to think. Meditating on what you want it to meditate on.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Question: What&#8217;s your preferred translation?</strong></span></p>
<p><em>*image credit: creation swap user <a href="http://www.creationswap.com/lovesr">Ron Loveday</a></em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve written a few times about my love of Evernote. I&#8217;m a big fan. I use it in so many ways, and it&#8217;s become my go-to app for writing, idea generation, travel plans, meeting notes, and collaboration. I wanted to share a couple of new ways I&#8217;m using it. Last week, I led a missions [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/20/evernote-for-travel-5-new-uses/">Evernote for travel: 5 new uses</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve written a few times about <a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2011/11/18/two-great-new-uses-for-evernote/">my love of Evernote</a>. I&#8217;m a <a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2011/03/28/software-tools-im-using-right-now/">big fan</a>.</p>
<p>I use it in so many ways, and it&#8217;s become my go-to app for writing, idea generation, travel plans, meeting notes, and collaboration. I wanted to share a couple of new ways I&#8217;m using it. Last week, <a title="costa rica" href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/tag/costa-rica/">I led a missions team to Costa Rica</a>. Evernote helped in big ways.</p>
<p>Next time you travel, I think it will help you, too.</p>
<h3>Using Evernote for traveling</h3>
<p><strong>1. In coordination with <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002OJ7EAE/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=httpwwwbenree-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B002OJ7EAE">IdeaPaint </a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=httpwwwbenree-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B002OJ7EAE" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" /><br />
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<p>I shared <a title="Two great new uses for Evernote" href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2011/11/18/two-great-new-uses-for-evernote/">last time</a> that I had a white board sticker that I put on my wall. The only problem with the sticker was that it kept falling down, which is not very professional during a meeting. So I decided to use <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002OJ7EAE/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=httpwwwbenree-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B002OJ7EAE">IdeaPaint</a>, a paint that is used like a whiteboard. I can write and erase on it, and it leaves no ghost marks or faint colors behind. As I was planning things out for our trip, I could write them on my wall, snap a pic when I&#8217;m done, and save the pics to Evernote.</p>
<p><strong>2. Scanning in important info</strong></p>
<p>As part of being a team leader of <a title="costa rica" href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/tag/costa-rica/">our trip to Costa Rica</a>, I had to gather <em><strong>lots</strong></em> of info from each team member. And lots of info for the organization we were going through. And lots of information for Grace. And I needed to have all of that info with me. I had passports, emergency contact info, insurance information, etc. I had hundreds of pieces of paper I needed to travel with. So I scanned every one of them in to Evernote, and they were <em><strong>instantly searchable</strong></em>. So, for instance, if I needed to search for Justin&#8217;s drug allergies, I didn&#8217;t have to dig for the right paper…I just typed it into Evernote and voila!</p>
<p><strong>3. Collaboration with key documents</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m the small groups pastor at <a href="http://www.gcomchurch.com">Grace</a>, not the missions pastor. So I don&#8217;t personally need to keep a record of everything from our travels to Costa Rica. That&#8217;s the responsibility of <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/lindzfrey">Lindsey Frey</a>. So I &#8220;shared&#8221; the &#8220;Costa Rica&#8221; notebook with Lindsey, and she&#8217;s able to file away every document I put together. And when I make changes to the notebook, those changes are reflected in her notebook, too. Which means I don&#8217;t have to make a second copy of everything, or update her every time a change is made.</p>
<p><strong>4. Keeping up with travel arrangements</strong></p>
<p>I saved all of our itineraries to Evernote. Most of our team were traveling on the exact same schedule. Two team members, however, were traveling back home 3 days later. So things could easily get a little sticky. But with Evernote, I was able to keep the itineraries separate, and quickly and easily pull up the various airline information for each team member. Which was nice, because I was able to share those itineraries in a flash with our team, and with anyone in the States who needed the info.</p>
<p><strong>5. Writing blogs</strong></p>
<p>I wrote blog posts every day updating our progress. When I was at The Abraham Project, I didn&#8217;t have access to internet. But even without access to internet, Evernote works. So I&#8217;d jot down my blog post ideas throughout the day, then when I got back to the bed-and-breakfast where we were staying, Evernote would sync up, and I&#8217;d have access to the notes on my computer. Rather than just trying to remember my thoughts throughout the day, I had downloaded them when they came to mind. Which made the writing process much quicker and easier.</p>
<p>Next time you&#8217;re leading a missions team, or taking a trip of any kind, consider using Evernote. It&#8217;ll make your life much easier.</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Have you converted to using Evernote? Are you &#8220;sold&#8221; on it?</strong></span></p>
<p><em>* image via iStock Photo user: <a href="http://www.istockphoto.com/user_view.php?id=3468007">Maurits Vink</a></em></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Can I tell you something about yourself? You know a complainer. The guy that, no matter what happens, no matter how good or bad a situation, he&#8217;s going to find a way to be upset about something. The girl that is constantly down on whatever you, or anyone else, does. They&#8217;re good at tearing people [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/19/5-dangers-of-the-complainer/">5 Dangers of the &#8220;Complainer&#8221;</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can I tell you something about yourself?</p>
<p>You know a complainer.</p>
<p>The guy that, no matter what happens, no matter how good or bad a situation, he&#8217;s going to find a way to be upset about something. The girl that is constantly down on whatever you, or anyone else, does.</p>
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<p>They&#8217;re good at tearing people down, discouraging an entire team, and slowing growth.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s the reality: <em><strong>there is always something to complain about.</strong></em></p>
<p>Life <em><strong>is</strong></em> often exceedingly difficult. Organizations <em><strong>are</strong></em> often in decline. Things seemingly <em><strong>couldn&#8217;t</strong></em> get worse.</p>
<p>If we&#8217;re honest with ourselves, &#8220;complainers&#8221; put words to the thoughts racing through our heads. But there&#8217;s a difference in having a thought and acting on it. A difference in having a thought and fleshing that out for everyone to join in with you. A difference in keeping a thought to yourself and recruiting others to moan with you. <span style="color: #ff0000;">*</span></p>
<p>No matter where you are in life, you&#8217;ll find complainers.</p>
<ul>
<li>At family gatherings.</li>
<li>At church.</li>
<li>At the water cooler at work.</li>
<li>At conferences.</li>
<li>On vacation.</li>
<li>On Facebook.</li>
<li>By text message</li>
<li>By email</li>
<li>By phone calls</li>
<li>By twitter updates.</li>
</ul>
<h3>Brothers don&#8217;t shake hands</h3>
<p><strong>Complainers need a hug.</strong> They need to be told that it&#8217;s going to be okay. They need to be reminded that God is in control, and that he&#8217;s a good, loving, kind God.</p>
<p>But they <em><strong>don&#8217;t</strong></em> need to be put in the role of director, no matter the size or structure of your organization. In fact, it&#8217;s incredibly dangerous for your organization if these people are put into director roles.</p>
<h2>5 Dangers of a Complaining Team Member</h2>
<p><strong>1. They&#8217;ll drag the whole team down with them.</strong></p>
<p>Before you know it, your organization will be full of doubting, complaining naysayers who see nothing but doom and gloom. Complainers are great recruiters.</p>
<p><strong>2. They compromise your vision.</strong></p>
<p>They ratchet up the negative aspect of the vision God&#8217;s placed in your heart, and if you&#8217;re not careful, you are pulled into the vortex of their negativity, and your once-clear vision becomes muddied.</p>
<p><strong>3. They&#8217;ll not perform their job well.</strong></p>
<p>They&#8217;ll be focused on the difficult parts of their job, and be distracted from the good, positive aspects.</p>
<p><strong>4. They&#8217;ll not help your organization move forward.</strong></p>
<p>Stuck on past failures and current challenges, they&#8217;ll not be challenged to press forward and find new, innovative solutions.</p>
<p><strong>5. They&#8217;re never satisfied.</strong></p>
<p>As soon as something goes their way, they&#8217;ve found another situation to complain about. They&#8217;re toxic even in the best of times. Nothing you can do will satiate their desire for more complaints. Everything you do fuels their fire.</p>
<p>Nip complaining in the bud. It&#8217;s a heart issue, reflective of a heart that doesn&#8217;t rest soundly in the goodness and power of God. And it&#8217;ll rot your team from the inside out.</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t let complainers be directors.</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>Do everything without grumbling or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, “children of God without fault in a warped and crooked generation.” &#8211; Philippians 2:14-15</p></blockquote>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;">* <em>I&#8217;m not naive. I can be honest when personal, and organizational, change needs to happen. I&#8217;m not contending that you should mask all problems with a smile. I&#8217;m making the argument that constant complainers are toxic.</em></span></p>
<p>* <em>image credit: CreationSwap user <a href="http://www.creationswap.com/pixelated">Alan Belcher</a></em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/19/5-dangers-of-the-complainer/">5 Dangers of the &#8220;Complainer&#8221;</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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		<title>Fresh starts don&#8217;t have to be trendy</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Jan 2012 14:38:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I started my 1-year Bible reading plan today. 16 days after the start of the new year. Which is neither trendy nor inspiring. Nobody wants to show up late to a party. Or be the last one to leave. Or catch on to the cool things after everyone else. I was reading my Bible, but [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/17/fresh-starts-dont-have-to-be-trendy/">Fresh starts don&#8217;t have to be trendy</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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<p>I started my 1-year Bible reading plan today.</p>
<p><em><strong>16 days after</strong></em> the start of the new year.</p>
<p>Which is neither trendy nor inspiring.</p>
<p>Nobody wants to show up late to a party. Or be the last one to leave. Or catch on to the cool things <em><strong>after</strong></em> everyone else.</p>
<p>I was reading my Bible, but wasn&#8217;t in a specific plan, because quite frankly, I forgot to start one. (I was reading my Bible daily…just not as a part of a specific plan) With my trip to Costa Rica, I simply forgot to get cranking on the new plan.</p>
<h3>Why does this matter?</h3>
<p>Why does it matter that I&#8217;m starting my Bible reading plan 16 days <em><strong>after</strong></em> the rest of the world has started their plan, their diet, and their life changes?</p>
<p>Because there are changes that you haven&#8217;t made yet, either. There are things you know you need to do, but for whatever reason, you haven&#8217;t. And looking at the calendar could leave you paralyzed, because you had good intentions of making those changes over 2 weeks ago.</p>
<p>Maybe you forgot. Maybe you didn&#8217;t realize you needed to start. Maybe you intentionally chose to put things off.</p>
<p><strong>Start now!</strong> No more <a title="Spiritual procrastination" href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2011/04/13/spiritual-procrastination/">procrastinating</a>!</p>
<p>Whether what you&#8217;ve been wanting to do is start a Bible reading plan (I&#8217;m reading the chronological plan on <a href="http://www.youversion.com">YouVersion</a>), start a blog, or quit smoking.</p>
<p><em><strong>It&#8217;s time you forgave that person who wronged you.</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>It&#8217;s time to write that book.</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>It&#8217;s time to reach out to your neighbor.</strong></em></p>
<p><em><strong>It&#8217;s time to break that addiction.</strong></em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s January 17th. It&#8217;s not the trendy time to make life changes. But who needs trendy times, anyway?</p>
<p>Instead of standing still, paralyzed by the mountain of changes that need to happen to move you where you <em><strong>need</strong></em> to be, do something. <a title="Pee Pee and steps of faith" href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2011/02/21/pee-pee-and-steps-of-faith/">Take a step</a> in the right direction, and God will reward that step.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t wait until everyone else is making changes. Change now!</p>
<p><strong>January 17th is my fresh start. </strong></p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>Care to join me?</strong></span></p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p><span style="color: #ff0000;"><strong>What changes are you going to work on?</strong></span></p>
<p>* <em>image credit: Creation swap user <a href="http://www.creationswap.com/bshape">Branden Shape</a></em></p>
<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/17/fresh-starts-dont-have-to-be-trendy/">Fresh starts don&#8217;t have to be trendy</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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		<title>Costa Rica, day 5</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 12:54:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week, I’m leading a missions team to Costa Rica to support The Abraham Project, and two full-time missionaries that we (Grace Community Church) sent here to Costa Rica, Jason and Kerby Harpst. I’ll be blogging daily about our progress here. God made dirt&#8230; My once gray shoes are now a dull shade of brown, their [...]<p><a href="http://www.benreed.net/index.php/2012/01/13/costa-rica-day-5/">Costa Rica, day 5</a> is a post from: <a href="http://www.benreed.net">Life and Theology</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #999999;"><em>This week, I’m leading a missions team to Costa Rica to support <a href="http://abrahamproject.org/"><span style="color: #999999;">The Abraham Project</span></a>, and two full-time missionaries that we (<a href="http://www.gcomchurch.com/"><span style="color: #999999;">Grace Community Church</span></a>) sent here to Costa Rica, Jason and Kerby Harpst. I’ll be blogging daily about our progress here.</em></span></p>
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<h3>God made dirt&#8230;</h3>
<p>My once gray shoes are now a dull shade of brown, their soles are peeling back from the toes to the heel.</p>
<p>My shorts have the same dusty look and feel.</p>
<p>My favorite UT hat has lost its orange luster.</p>
<p>My face is a mix of burned red/brown, and my legs hurt like they&#8217;ve never hurt before.</p>
<p>But it&#8217;s the best kind of dirty/hot/sore/tired kind of feeling possible.</p>
<p>Today was our last day of work on the field, and it was by far the hottest. Wiping sweat and sunscreen from our weary eyes, we trudged to grade a bit more. It was all I could do to swing the pickaxe for a few hours to break up that dry, packed dirt. <strong>And I&#8217;m pretty sure that the dirt that we wheelbarrowed out weighed more today than yesterday. That&#8217;s possible, right?</strong></p>
<p>The girls got manicures/pedicures this morning…but not so that they could sit around and be pampered. One of the families that&#8217;s a part of The Abraham Project does nails on the side, and our girls&#8217; business today was a big blessing for her. It gave her family a little boost in income for the day/week.</p>
<h3>The orphans</h3>
<p>This afternoon, we had a chance to play with the children one last time. While playing soccer, I got the ball kicked right where it counts…but afterwards, I wowed them with my lame, amateurish magic trick. Had them thinking I was pulling a rubber ball out of their ear. Got &#8216;em every time.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe that anyone would want to leave their child behind and cease to take care of him/her. These orphans are the sweetest children you&#8217;ll ever meet.</p>
<p>Leaving them to get on the bus was much more difficult than anyone on our team anticipated.</p>
<p>On to our last day here.</p>
<p>¡hasta luega</p>
<div id="attachment_4218" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 570px"><a href="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0186.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4218" title="the field" src="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0186-1024x680.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="372" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">the field we worked on all week</p></div>
<div id="attachment_4219" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 570px"><a href="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0183.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4219" title="the guys" src="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0183-680x1024.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="843" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">All of the guys that we worked with.</p></div>
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		<title>Costa Rica, day 4</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 12:28:23 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="color: #999999;"><em>This week, I’m leading a missions team to Costa Rica to support <a href="http://abrahamproject.org/"><span style="color: #999999;">The Abraham Project</span></a>, and two full-time missionaries that we (<a href="http://www.gcomchurch.com/"><span style="color: #999999;">Grace Community Church</span></a>) sent here to Costa Rica, Jason and Kerby Harpst. I’ll be blogging daily about our progress here.</em></span></p>
<div>When the local workers begin to call you by your first name, you know you&#8217;ve broken through.</div>
<p>But you know it&#8217;s going to be a long day when a team member gets excited right out of the gate because there&#8217;s a piece of broken concrete where only dirt clods should reside.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>As our day progressed and we continued connecting with the workers, one of them asked me, &#8220;Do you like country music?&#8221; Not wanting to sound pretentious with my nuanced love of New-grass music, I said, &#8220;Yes.&#8221; I tried explaining that country music started in Nashville, close to where I live. I asked if he knew Garth Brooks. Nope. Then they asked if I liked music videos. Again, a simple, &#8220;Yes&#8221; was easiest. Castillo wondered if I&#8217;d seen a music video with a guy that had long hair, a pony tail, wore a kilt and played a harmonica. That wasn&#8217;t ringing a bell with me, as I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s not with you.</p>
<p>Then he sang the chorus. Instantly, it was &#8220;Karma Chameleon&#8221; by Boy George.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a shame that, of all American music, a Boy George song would stand the test of time. Even Boy George fans would say that&#8217;s a shame.</p>
<p>Today, in addition to the same schedule as yesterday (some of us digging, some of us teaching children the Bible), we got to hear from Pastor Jorge, the founder of The Abraham Project. Over a decade ago, Jorge came to speak at a local church here in Costa Rica. There were 7 people present, and they planned on soon shutting the doors forever. After the service, through praying with some of the members, the Lord spoke to Jorge. He began to see the potential that was here for building a children&#8217;s home that would house orphans, but he only had $20 in his pocket.</p>
<p>He said</p>
<blockquote><p>Abraham took a step of faith even though he didn&#8217;t know where he was going.</p></blockquote>
<p>God had planted a big vision into the heart of Jorge, but it was a vision bigger than Jorge could do on his own.</p>
<p>He went on to say:</p>
<blockquote><p>Before you get to the promised land, there will be many battles, but if He&#8217;s called you there you&#8217;ll get there.</p></blockquote>
<p>Now, his $20 has multiplied into The Abraham Project, an organization worth over $2,000,000.</p>
<p>He challenged our team with this:</p>
<blockquote><p>Take the $20 in your project and start a project that will grow to over $2 million.</p></blockquote>
<div id="attachment_4209" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 570px"><a href="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/IMG_2682.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4209" title="Jorge" src="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/IMG_2682-1024x764.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="418" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Pastor Jorge addressing our group</p></div>
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<p>After lunch, we took a tour of the new piece of property that The Abraham Project owns, a 2.5 acre plot valued at $750,000 (but bought for ~$250,000). Their future plans including building 4 more children&#8217;s homes and a parking lot (the current building has very little space for parking). A river snakes around the edge of the property…it&#8217;s going to be beautiful once complete.</p>
<p>Currently, the land is full of coffee trees and banana trees. I got to try my first ever coffee cherry. The green coffee bean resides in the center of the cherry. If the cherry&#8217;s ripe, it&#8217;ll be red. It was as delightful as I expected.</p>
<div id="attachment_4211" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 570px"><a href="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0159.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4211" title="red and green coffee cherries" src="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0159-680x1024.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="843" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Unpicked green (unripe) and red (ripe) coffee cherries.</p></div>
<div id="attachment_4210" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 570px"><a href="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0154.jpg"><img class="size-large wp-image-4210" title="coffee cherries basket" src="http://www.benreed.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/DSC_0154-1024x680.jpg" alt="" width="560" height="372" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">This man graciously shared some of his picked coffee cherries with us.</p></div>
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