Christian Fatigue Syndrome

benlreed —  July 25, 2012 — 9 Comments

Growing up, I went to church (I know…that’s a theologically loaded phrase. Just hang with me) a lot. A lot. (read that last sentence slowly for dramatic effect, please)

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On any given week, we had Sunday morning services, Sunday school, youth choir, discipleship classes, student ministry, Tuesday night outreach, Bible drill, Royal Ambassador’s, and Friday night at the gym. Sprinkle in the occasional Saturday brunch, outreach event, and Judgment House, and our lives revolved around being at the church building. (I’m incredibly thankful for the commitment my parents made to raising me in a godly home…it set me on a trajectory that would shape my life in massive ways)

I remember vividly one late Sunday afternoon sitting on the back deck grilling with my dad. My little brother was swimming in our blue kiddie pool, and mom was there taking it all in. I felt guilty the moment this thought passed through my head, but I let it pass anyway. I guess I was just a little devil child.

I sure wish we could just skip out on going to church tonight.

As I thought it, fire from heaven spit down into my eyes and scorched me.

Turns out, though, the rest of my family was thinking the same thing. We weren’t trying to be heathens, choosing to indulge in our sin rather than worship Jesus. We just all wanted to be together as a family and relax…ahem *Sabbath*…instead of cleaning up, putting on our “Sunday best,” and driving across town to our second worship service of the day.

Maybe you grew up in that sort of environment, too. It’s not that churches set out to heap burdens on people and create guilty feelings when they even think about not attending a Sunday evening service. “Stuff” just happens. One good idea gets thrown on top of another, and before you know it, every night of the week is loaded with a different event.

The Simple Life

“Simple church” (HT: Thom Rainer) doesn’t happen unintentionally. No church drifts into simplicity. Currents take a church towards complexity. Towards an increasing number of functions, events, and opportunities to “go to church.” Since each of these events is linked with a grand idea, a dynamic leader, and the heart of a person who wants to lead people to Jesus, they’re incredibly difficult to stop even when the timing is right.

“Simple” churches give families the time to invest in one another. Time to serve their community. Time to enjoy a Sunday Sabbath. Time to minister to their neighbors. Time to invite people into their home. Time to be the church, rather than simply go to church.

Complex churches give people “Christian Fatigue Syndrome,” wearing people out with good things and not freeing them up to do what’s best. When people are hit with CFS, they become desensitized to authentic worship, boil evangelism down to sharing a tract, and treat biblical community as just another activity on their already-too-busy schedules rather than the life-giving gift God intended it to be.

Time to quit giving people Christian Fatigue Syndrome.

Question:

What does your church ask you to do? Is it increasingly simple? Or complex?

 

 

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Christ follower, husband, father, writer, pastor of small groups at Long Hollow Baptist Church. Communications director for the Small Group Network.
  • http://www.jasonvana.com Jason Vana

    Very insightful post, Ben. I think sometimes in the course of doing ministry, we forget that the most powerful ministry can be just sitting across a table from someone sharing life with them.

  • http://bit.ly/hWr7Cw Rob T

    Agreed!

  • http://www.faithfulandfruitful.com/ Luke Simmons

    Excellent post. I agree that churches and leaders drift toward complexity. One question…do you find that many Christians do go “be” the church when they have free time?

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      I’d like to hope that they do! 

  • http://www.margaretfeinberg.com/ Margaret

    too true. Sometimes it’s good to challenge yourself to take a sabbath from the Sabbath and take that time to “be.” Pack a picnic. Go on a hike. Invite your neighbor who would never step foot inside of a church.  

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      I agree, Margaret…that’s tough, though!

  • John S Wilson III

    agree that simple is important, the problem is simple is made complex because of our understanding of church, because of the system that thinks church is about the building of bricks and concrete and about services and about clergy/laity distinctions.

    Church in the Bible is actually the gathering of God’s people, His ekklesia.

    About three years ago my family and I left  the institutional church system and began gathering with other brothers and sisters from house to house or places where we can gather and enjoy sharing a meal and encouraging each other. This has enabled us to freely participate and share Christ’s life together. Because each brother and sisters participates each learns to put off the flesh and to put on Christ (which is not simple by the way). This only happens in face to face participation and sharing life together. We have learned to really love one another.

    Would encourage others to see how church can be reimagined and that life together could be a reality and Christ might have a place of rest wherever His people gather together in His name.

    I have found the following books very helpful for those interested:

    “The Torch and the Testimony” by John W. Kennedy
    “Life Together” by Deitrich Bonheoffer
    “The Rabbit and the Elephant” by Tony and Felicity Dale
    “Search & Rescue” by Neil Cole
    “Reimaging Church” and “Finding Organic Church” by Frank Viola
    “The Priesthood of All Believers” by Milt Rodriguez
    “A Church Building Every 1/2 Mile” by Jon Zens

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      Great stuff, John. Thanks for sharing.

  • Alicia Costello

    Hi Ben,
    I just stumbled on your blog.  I am truly blessed with your honesty and insight, and I know the people in your local church are too.  :)
    I’m in search of some advice you or maybe some of your readers can give me regarding my pastors and their leadership.  If you (and maybe some willing readers?) would give me a little bit of time,  I would much appreciate it.  I’m not one of those people who will stalk you via email asking for advice every day…I’m just faced with a situation that I can’t talk to my pastors/church about (since it’s about them) and need some pastoral/church leader advice.
    You or any willing readers can email me at wordshifter@gmail.com.  Any spammers will be forever banished to the Spam Dungeon.
    Thanks
    Alicia