Ron Swanson on building relationships

benlreed —  April 30, 2012 — 2 Comments

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Ron Swanson, Parks Department Director in Pawnee, IL on NBC’s Parks & Rec, shares his wisdom on building relationships:

When people get a little too chummy with me, I like to call them by the wrong name to let them know I don’t really care about them. – Ron Swanson

Pastors, we’ve got to be better at this. Write new names down. Save them to your phone. Ask for a bit of help.

But there’s no excuse to not remembering people’s names. “I’m just bad with names” doesn’t cut it. “I’m good with faces” doesn’t, either.

Name recognition shows you care nearly as much as any single act. Going out of your way to make this a priority builds bridges.

Don’t overlook the power of remembering someone’s name.

Question:

Are you good with names? Or is it a discipline you need to learn?

 

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Christ follower, husband, father, writer, pastor of small groups at Long Hollow Baptist Church. Communications director for the Small Group Network.
  • http://bit.ly/hWr7Cw Rob T

    haha, good quote.  Carey Nieuwhof had a great post about this recently.

  • http://www.facebook.com/alterry2 Andrew Terry

    I am absolutely horrible at names. Even those whom I see often, call friends, and even hang out with weekly, I have troubles remembering names. I’ve prayed on several occasions that God would heal me of my absent mindedness.