The #1 way a young leader can gain influence

benlreed —  June 14, 2011 — 9 Comments

Young leaders often feel behind the curve.

Every meeting they attend, every team they lead, every trip they plan…they’re the youngest and least experienced.  And, in my case, I’ve been in the room where everybody present had children older than me.

I can’t tell you how many looks I was flashed that said, “How cute…he’s trying to lead us…isn’t that neat?!?” As a leader, that’s frustrating.

When I started in my current role, I was the youngest on staff.

When I started in my current role, I was the younger than every one of the small group leaders at Grace.

But over time, I’ve been able to grow some level of influence.  And here’s one principle I’ve learned:

Be faithful in the little things.

If I was given a task, even if it didn’t directly relate to my area of leadership, I worked to make sure I completed the task well.  Not just half-heartedly, but with excellence.

If I took on a new responsibility, I made sure that I was 100% faithful, to the best of my abilities and even more so, to exceed expectations.

And this principle is biblical:

One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much… – Luke 16:10

It’s the little things, the smaller responsibilities, that are the greatest test of character, not the bigger ones.  Letting the ball drop on the “little things” is a symptom of a heart that’s not ready for bigger, weightier things.

If you’re given smaller, less significant assignments and you fail to meet and exceed expectations, why would those who are in leadership over you trust you to meet and exceed expectations in more significant roles?

The insignificant tasks you take on early in leadership may be just that…insignificant.  Except for one thing: they show your character.  And if you want to gain influence, character (even more than age and experience) is key.

A certain level of trust must be granted to you because you’re young.  But a deeper, more substantial level of trust, the one you’re looking for, is earned.

Trust is earned one faithful step at a time.

Be faithful in the small steps.  It’ll pay off in time.

Have you ever dropped the ball on a small responsibility?

Did you see that affect your influence?

 

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Christ follower, husband, father, writer, pastor of small groups at Long Hollow Baptist Church. Communications director for the Small Group Network.
  • http://thoughtsaboutnothing.com @kylereed

    you nailed it ben.

    It is amazing the respect you earn when you are just faithful and show up. 
    It is unfortunate that young leaders are known for dropping the ball, but making this a priority can quickly renew the trust in young leaders. 

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      Yep.  I’ve found that perceptions can change quickly with faithful work.  

  • Anonymous

    You’re right Ben. It’s so easy to overlook those little things trying to do something big. I had to learn that at a job I’m at now. Had someone comment on a very minor thing that wasn’t even my job. Was tempted to get very frustrated by that and blow it off, but have made it my mission since then to make sure that little thing got done well and the relationship improved.

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      Good stuff…love to hear success stories like that!

  • http://twitter.com/Brianowen Brian Owen

    Good thoughts Ben.  And as an…umm…more mature leader (turned 44 last weekend)…I had to laugh at your blog post subtitle…I should write a post about how “older leaders feel behind the curve.”  The massive changes in technology and social media can feel overwheming at times….and the buzz in the church world is often focused on going after the 20-somethings and how they don’t have much of a presence in the local church.  My years of ministry experience in college ministry (Campus Crusade) has helped me keep more of a technological edge than many of my peers but it’s still intimidating at times.

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      Ha! I guess we’ve all got a curve we’re chasing!

      Keep investing in younger leaders!

  • http://robrash.us Rob Rash

    That’s the motto of my life… Be faithful in the small things. This applies in just about every area too, not just leadership.

    Good word Ben.

    • http://www.benreed.net Ben Reed

      Very true, Rob…I think that’s a good life motto.

  • Rdeckersr

    Would love to live in a world where church leaders were NOT concerned with gaining influence. The leaders of this world Lord it over one another. It should not be that way with Christians.