Archive for June, 2009

30 Jun, 2009

Michael Jackson’s legacy

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Life theology

Josh Patterson is one of the pastors at The Village Church in Dallas, TX, and writes for their blog.  I love what he has said concerning the passing of Michael Jackson.  His response reflects a Biblical worldview.  I thought I’d share it with you.
I have tried to “moonwalk” a thousand times. I used to think [...]

29 Jun, 2009

Are you speaking another langugage?

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Church

I had the opportunity to preach at a Korean church yesterday.  It was definitely a different kind of an experience.  I’m not sure if your experience at the church where you attend is anything like mine, but typically the American church experience goes something like this:
1. Arrive 5 minutes late.
2. Sit in the back.
3. Say [...]

24 Jun, 2009

A Creepy Email

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Leadership| Social Networking

I received an email today from a store that I shopped at just a couple of weeks ago.  For the record, I never logged in and told them what I purchased.  This email was sent unsolicited 2 weeks after the purchase.  Here’s the email:

I’ve got two thoughts from this:
1. Nothing is private. Not that we [...]

22 Jun, 2009

Thanks, Dad

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Parenting

I ended up buying a card for my dad for Father’s Day, but felt lame doing it.  I think that most of that canned stuff is lame…I didn’t write it, but I’ll sign my name to it as if I did!  Anybody else feel like that?  Basically, in getting a card, I feel like I’m [...]

18 Jun, 2009

Rejoice!

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Biblical Counseling| Devotional Thought

When life falls apart, we tend to lose hope.  Whether that’s getting a flat tire (I just had one!), getting a headache, hearing tragic news, or losing your job, our response is often to recoil and lose hope.
When life falls apart, do you run to God or from Him?  Those are the only two options.  [...]

17 Jun, 2009

5 years!

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Life theology

Laura and I celebrated our 5 year anniversary together this weekend.  Wow, how time flies!  Here are some things we’ve done that I would consider significant, in random order:
1. Moved five times.
2. Finished graduate school.
3. Bought a car and a truck.
4. Bought a house.
5. Bought a dog.
6. Had a child.
7. Led a small group
8. Learned [...]

15 Jun, 2009

Reactive or Proactive?

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Leadership

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In your ministry and leadership, do you merely copy others?
Recently, there has been a bit of competition raised right outside of our office building.  Little Caeser’s Pizza has just moved in, and they’re offering “$5 Hot-N-Ready” pizza.   They even offer a drive-thru window!  Simply drive up, tell them what kind of pizza(s) you want, and [...]

10 Jun, 2009

Setting others up for success

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Leadership| Small Group Strategy

When I worked as a manager for Starbucks, I was always thinking about the next manager on duty.  I wanted to make sure I was “setting them up for success.”  That meant making sure the bar was clean, the dishes were put away, the café was tidy, the milk was stocked, the espresso was ready [...]

10 Jun, 2009

A Waste of 3:41

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Videos

So, I just wasted 3 minutes, 41 seconds of my life, and thought I’d share with you how I did that.  This video’s really cool, and if I was still in college, this is something that I would have been a part of.  Only watch this video right now if you’ve got lots of other, [...]

08 Jun, 2009

Your local paper

Posted by: Ben Reed In: Leadership

Do you read your local paper?  Mine is the Leaf Chronicle (I receive the Leaf Chronicle electronically, via e-mail, every day).  Is it the most well-done paper?  Probably not.  Is it the most widely circulated paper?  You answer that.  You likely have never heard of it.  It doesn’t have the best articles, the most extensive [...]




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